I’m going to share with you my own stumbling blocks in minding our home….It’s me. I’m my own worst enemy. It isn’t the lack of time that gets me….It’s my trouble with managing time. I tend to overthink everything, which is probably not a big surprise to anyone that knows me. I just like to have it all planned out and perfect in execution. So what am I doing to get over myself? I’ve reached out to learn some new skills.

First on my list is de-stressing. It’s counterproductive to be at such a high level of arousal at all times. Worrying and thinking on what foods I need to prepare for my family, how best to organize our closets and drawer, or how to remove the crayon from wallpaper is not getting all of those things done. I was really excited to receive a review copy of The De-Stress Diva’s Guide to Live. With some practical advice on how to push through the stress and get productive, the book is perfect for all moms, whether they work outside or inside the home. I’ll be reviewing the book on Mom’s Favorite Stuff this Thursday but I can tell you the first step is all about breathing.

Because of all the thinking, I sometimes miss the big things. At the end of the day, my job is being a mom and there is no point to letting the big things…like my sons or my husband suffer for my overfocus on the planning stage or my own indecision on little things. It’s true that a clean house and a healthy meal are all to the benefit of my sons, I’m starting to re-prioritize what is THE more important things and how to realign it all together.

Finally, I’m planning on a little me time. In the last six months, I have only been away for my sons once for longer than the ride to my oldest’s school for pick up…about 20 minutes. I’m working on saving a little time for meditation, writing, and I’m hoping to be starting a yoga class with friends in the new year.

What prevents you from reaching your minding the home goals? Are you your own worst enemy?